Kim Seelbrede, LCSW

Licensed Psychotherapist

Advanced EMDR & Somatic Therapist

Relationship & Couple Therapist

Hello and welcome! I’m Kimberly

Psychotherapist + owner of Holistic Psychotherapy & Wellness Manhattan

I’ve been a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in NYC for nearly 20 Years. I am delighted that you are exploring integrative approaches to mental health. I approach my work as a New York City based psychotherapist and mind-body practitioner in the spirit of service, profound curiosity and gratitude to be able to do work that I love. It’s my goal to ensure that you gain in therapy the necessary skills to feel present, resilient, embodied, vital and empowered.

How can therapy heal and enhance your life?

I believe that effective therapy can help you heal your past, understand your present, allowing you to create your future. I harness the power of evidence-based treatments, such as CBT and EMDR to help my clients reach their goals and make meaningful changes their lives. I provide a compassionate, supportive space for individuals seeking transformation. I’ll empower you to remove inner and outer blocks so that you may find the joy, happiness, and vibrancy you are craving. I specialize in helping women enjoy states of optimal mental health, but I also enjoy working with men and their unique struggles.

Types of therapy modalities that I offer…

I excel in interventional therapy, or crisis therapy which involves providing timely support and pragmatic solutions for patients in crisis. This approach is particularly helpful for those undergoing challenging life transitions or struggling with acute emotional distress. This may include extra sessions or extended sessions for your mental health and wellbeing. Evidence-based therapy sessions may also include somatic psychotherapy. My holistic perspective recognizes the importance of integrating the mind and body for optimal healing. As such, I incorporate somatic exercises and techniques using a polyvagal lens to help patients process and release trauma held within the body. While I don’t neglect the top-down approach because it’s essential, a bottom-up approach emphasizes the connection between physical sensations and emotional well-being, promoting a comprehensive and thorough healing experience.

My Practice Philosophy…

I enjoy learning immensely and have continued to advance my skills and knowledge well beyond graduate my school foundation. This allows me to offer an eclectic practice, with highly-effective and evidenced-based therapies working with a range of challenges. I work primarily from a psychodynamic and somatic lens which means we consider the hidden dynamics and patterns in your life as well as the health of your nervous system. As a mind-body practitioner, I understand the value of honoring all aspects of the individuals I work with which allows us to address the root cause of suffering. If you are seeking therapy because of the trauma(s) in your story or painful memories and events that feel “stuck,” I can help you heal on a deeper level using EMDR & Somatic Therapy. In addition to my traditional psychotherapy and clinical training, I also have a holistic philosophy that allows me to work with less traditional and cutting-edge treatments that have led to profound mind-body healing. I am also deeply grateful for the opportunity to have trained with world-renowned experts in many areas. An exciting aspect of my practice is the integration of holistic and alternative medicine to support healthy brain function. Ask me about how precursor amino acids can support optimal mental and emotional health!

The other parts of my life…

I have homes in New York and Montana where I share a private practice with my husband, psychologist John Christopher, Ph.D. I enjoy travel, photography, yoga, biking, gardening, nature, technology, workshops, the beach and collecting vintage and flea market finds. I have two adult sons who live in New York City, a grandson that delights and delights, and two black rescue cats.

Early years

I was born in Greenville Ohio. As a youth and adolescent, I trained in ballet, jazz and modern dance, and was an athlete competing in gymnastics, track, swimming and diving.

My mother believed that beauty pageants would be one way to advance me beyond my small town experience, thus, she entered me in a beauty pageant during my first year of college. Reluctantly, I followed through and went on to win the title of Miss Ohio, which led to becoming Miss USA within months. I then moved to Manhattan where I placed as a runner up in the Miss Universe Pageant held that year in New York City. Never a fan of beauty pageants (for all sorts of reasons), and also because I am shy, socially anxious and not one to seek attention, I very much considered myself an "accidental beauty queen."

I do however acknowledge that winning the pageant afforded me the opportunity to move to New York City, and for that amazing experience, I remain grateful. At the end of my reign, I stayed in Manhattan and made appearances in soap operas, television commercials and print ads. I was also the official Betamax Girl, of the now obsolete Sony Betamax.


My Interest In Psychology

My journey into the world of mental health began at an early age, as I attempted to navigate my young years with parents who were kind and loving, but highly-anxious and sad. My dad was quiet and reclusive, spending much of his time running his dime store and inventing board games in our garage. My mom was a devout Christian Scientist who prayed much of the day seeking her own refuge from sorrow and terror. In time, and with the help of my own therapy, I came to understand the many ways that religion served my mother’s psychological needs, but not mine. My deep interest and curiosity in human nature was overdetermined, and so I would eventually leave my strange and lonely childhood and become a lifelong student of psychology.

During the pageant, I met the son of the creator of Candies Shoes who sponsored the pageant. Several years after the pageant, we married and had two sons. While my boys were young, I returned to school and earned an undergraduate degree in psychology. I later obtained a graduate degree with high honors from New York University in Clinical Social Work. I was also a Ph.D candidate for a period of time, but in the wake of several significant losses (the death of my brother and dad and my mother’s stroke), I decided to focus on raising my two sons, single mom, post-divorce.

Somewhere between diving into my own emotional history and transforming sadness and pain, I fell in love with the process of healing and transforming, again and again. I view my work as the living embodiment of my own healing journey. I am an advocate for mental health awareness to decrease the stigma and normalize through education.


My Philosophy

I believe that effective therapy can help you heal your past, understand your present and create your future. I harness the power of evidence-based treatments, such as CBT and EMDR to help my clients reach their goals and make meaningful change their lives. I provide a compassionate, supportive space for individuals seeking transformation. I’ll empower you to identify and remove inner and outer blocks so that you may find the joy, happiness, and vibrancy you are craving.

In my private practice, I enjoy providing both short-term therapy and longer-term therapy equally. I work through the lens of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, my earliest training, and go beyond traditional “talk” therapy to integrate other supportive tools into my integrative psychotherapy practice. By blending Relational, Cognitive and Somatic Psychotherapy with EMDR, Brainspotting, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Ego-State Therapy, Attachment Theory and Somatic Experiencing techniques, I help clients talk less about their history, and process to heal more.

An exciting aspect of my practice is the integration of holistic and alternative medicine to support healthy brain function. Helping people heal requires considering all aspects of being. This is the core of holistic therapy in our efforts to heal the root cause of suffering. Feeling balanced and aligning with one’s highest self makes it easier to navigate outdated patterns of being in this world.


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HOLISTIC PSYCHOTHERAPY & WELLNESS NYC

Philosophy

For nearly twenty years, this holistically-oriented NYC Psychotherapy & Wellness Practice has blended what I’ve found to be the most effective practices in psychology, neurobiology, attachment, alternative practices, nutrition, coaching and mind-body medicine working with individuals and couples. As a holistic psychotherapist, I believe it’s important to address the root cause of emotional and psychological suffering. It’s important to know that we all make the most therapeutic progress in a compassionate and non-judgmental environment. I make every effort to ensure patient comfort and ease. Countless studies have shown that finding the right "fit" with a therapist is more important than the technique that is used. As a trauma-trained therapist I am influenced by humanist and existential philosophy, relational theory, attachment theory, psychoanalytic concepts, mindfulness, and somatic, mind and body psychology. My couple and marriage counseling work is influenced by Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). As neuroscience now shows us, the body and mind are inextricably linked—my 20+ years of experience with mindfulness, yoga therapy, and meditation greatly influence my work as a mental health provider. A Holistic and comprehensive therapy model ensures that you thrive in the many aspects of your life—including your relationship with your self and others. You will enjoy a more satisfying, rewarding, and joyful life, no matter your struggles, challenges, or diagnoses. I enjoy continuing education, and I’ve received extensive training and certification in a range of evidence-based and cutting-edge approaches to offer you this holistic model of care. Together, we work with practices designed to create an environment that supports optimal physical and mental health wellbeing. Lasting change and transformation is possible when given the right tools to thrive.

Training

  • Somatic Experiencing® International (in progress)

  • Eating Disorders, Compulsions & Addictions (EDCAS) Certification

    William Alanson White Institute of Psychiatry, Psychoanalysis & Psychology

  • EMDR Advanced Level EMDR Practitioner - Laurel Parnell PhD

  • Brainspotting - Lisa Schwarz, MEd

  • Positive Neuroplasticity Training Certification - Rick Hanson PhD

  • Nutrition and Integrative Medicine for Mental Health - Leslie Korn PhD

  • IFS Immersion: Integrating Internal Family Systems Across Clinical Applications - Frank Anderson, PhD

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy - Behavior Tech Institute

  • Advanced CBT Certification - New York University

  • Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Certification - New York University

  • Advanced Clinical Practice Certification - New York University

  • Clinical Approaches to the Addictions - Certification New York University

  • Clinical Practice with Adolescents - Certification New York University

  • Mindful Self-Compassion Training - Christopher K. Germer, PhD & Kristen Neff PhD

  • Executive Life Coaching - New York University

  • Institute for Life Coach Training

  • Urban Zen Integrative Therapy Training Program

  • Institute For Integrative Nutrition

    Additional Professional Training: Gottman Institute for Couples, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Hypnosis for Trauma & PTSD, Focusing Institute, Whole Body Focusing with Glenn Fleisch, Ph.D

    Ongoing workshops: Ester Perel, Bessel van der Kolk, MD, Dan Siegel, MD, Peter Levine, Ph.D, Gabor Mate, MD, Richard Schwartz, PhD, Sue Johnson, IFS, Somatic Experiencing, Trauma-Focused Treatment, Yoga Therapy, Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy

Expertise

  • Depression (major, postpartum depression, SAD, bipolar disorder, atypical depression, dysthymia, situational depression, chronic sadness)

  • Anxiety (panic disorder, generalized anxiety, phobias, social anxiety, PTSD, fear, worry, insomnia, emotional regulation), stress management, insomnia

  • Women’s hormonal health, perimenopause and menopause mental health assessment/coaching, chronic pain

  • Trauma resolution and PTSD therapy

  • Crisis counseling, life-challenges, transitions and overwhelm

  • Obstacles, blocking beliefs and feeling “stuck” in your life

  • Dysfunctional relationship dynamics and patterns in professional and personal relationships, communication difficulties, divorce, separation

  • Fear of success and fear of failure, harshly critical of oneself and others

  • Spiritual or existential concerns, shadow work, life purpose, energetic blocks, boundary work

  • Difficulties with work and life balance

  • Addictions, behavioral addictions, substance abuse, alcoholism and compulsions

  • Performance blocks, perfectionism, self-blame, negative self-image and self-sabotage

  • Feeling unworthy, undeserving, “not enough”, personal empowerment, identification of needs and trouble saying “no”

  • Compliance, accommodation, conflict avoidance, communication difficulties and impasses

  • Narcissistic abuse identification and recovery

  • Empath and highly sensitive person (HSP) coaching

  • Codependency, family conflict resolution, submissiveness and recovery from family enmeshment, ACOA adult children of alcoholics

  • Grief, loss and bereavement

  • Recovery and post-rehab support (for individuals in all stages of recovery from addictions, alcohol, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, trauma, pre-rehab, post-rehab, residential step-down support, wellness planning, new habit maintenance and self-care)

  • EMDR Therapy, Trauma Resolution, Unblocking & Manifesting

  • Celebrity mental health expertise and high-profile, VIP clients, therapy for entrepreneurs, executives, creatives, medical professionals

Modalities

  • Psychoanalytic, Relational & Interpersonal Psychotherapy

  • Attachment-Focused Couple Therapy (traditional, non-traditional, alternative lifestyle couples)

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), DBT Skills

  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy Consultation

  • Advanced level EMDR Therapy, Parts Therapy, Integrated Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Couple Therapy (Traditional, Non Traditional Couples)

  • Sexual Counseling (Traditional & Alternative Lifestyle)

  • Somatic Psychotherapy

  • Positive Psychology, Positive Neuroplasticity Coaching

  • Nutrition & Integrative Medicine For Mental Health

  • Transformational & Wellness Coaching

  • Urban Zen Integrative Therapy, Reiki, Energy Medicine

  • Nutrition & Integrative Medicine For Mental Health, Nutritional Amino Acid Protocols (using precursor amino acids, fatty acids, herbal medicine, supplement recommendations for mood, anxiety, ADHD, addictions, cravings, brain fog, PTSD, and more)

  • Clinical Hypnosis

Transform

If traditional “talk” therapy has not been enough to resolve your distressing symptoms, it might be time to try a different model of care. I’ve trained in many modalities, but I find myself returning to EMDR again and again. EMDR Therapy changed my practice years ago because it works and it changes lives. It is the one treatment method that is consistently powerful and transformative for my patients, especially when other highly-effective therapies such as IFS, CBT and Somatic Experiencing are integrated into sessions. Therapy is highly-individualized, and depending on your unique needs, chosen therapy modalities may include: EMDR, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, CBT, Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness and Somatic Experiencing®. I completed EMDRIA-approved EMDR advanced Levels I & II training and supervision many years ago and have used it in my New York City psychotherapy private practice consistently and with excellent results.

EMDR therapy is highly-effective at getting to the root cause of underlying beliefs and blocks that cause many to not benefit from traditional therapy or life coaching. EMDR treatment can elegantly help you transform surviving into thriving so you can lead a life without disruptive symptoms. Reprocessing difficult, disturbing or traumatic memories with EMDR leads to enhanced resiliency and vitality in the nervous system. EMDR treatment is an extensively researched and evidence-based method to help people recover from distressing life experiences, trauma, anxiety, panic, phobias, accidents, medical trauma and much more. EMDR is not just for trauma, it is also an excellent technique to enhance performance for athletes and creatives, or work and professional endeavors. It is especially helpful for clients who have worked hard in therapy or coaching, and find themselves wrestling with the same obstacles and patterns that initially led them to find a therapist or coach. We learned during the pandemic that EMDR can be offered to many patients virtually. Virtual EMDR is an effective and powerful tool to add to your therapy healing journey, as an adjunct to your existing therapy or as a stand-alone solution. LEARN MORE ABOUT EMDR

Teletherapy

faqs about online therapy in nYC: how does remote therapy/video therapy work?

While the technology for telemedicine has been available for decades, the pandemic made virtual therapy a necessity. Never did we imagine that so many individuals would benefit from online virtual therapy, but they did. Like many NYC therapists, I’ve been conducting virtual sessions for some time now, so I’m quite comfortable working with technology. Teletherapy is not a good fit for every person seeking counseling, and many simply prefer to conduct psychotherapy sessions in-person.

How does Online therapy work?

This New York City holistic psychotherapy and wellness practice understands that busy New Yorkers can’t always take time out of their day or week to commute to NYC therapy suites. Virtual therapy, as well as telephone therapy, is a modern option that has become the preferred way to conduct therapy and counseling for many, especially those who work or travel, couples with young children and different schedules, young adults, college students and expats. Online sessions make therapy easier for individuals struggling with social anxiety, agoraphobia, chronic illness, physical disabilities and those who reside in various parts of New York. After scheduling your online virtual session, I’ll send you a session link from my secure, HIPPA-compliant platform SimplePractice. You click on the link to my online waiting room and I admit you to my private virtual therapy office. It’s up to you to create an emotionally safe space in your home or office for our conversations. All you need is robust access to the internet. You can use your computer, IOS/Android phone, iPad, or any other tablet-enabled device. Most laptops have a built in videocam and mic, which makes it very easy.

What kind of therapy is offered virtually?

Online sessions are treated the same way as face-to-face sessions, using the same evidence-based therapy modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), trauma therapy, psychodynamic psychotherapy, somatic psychotherapy, life coaching, wellness coaching and stress management. In fact, we’ve learned that remote EMDR can be just as effective for trauma resolution and other concerns as in-person EMDR. Of course, not everyone or every situation should be treated remotely, therefore, it’s important to reach out to potential therapists to determine if your situation is appropriate for virtual therapy. If you feel hesitant about discussing issues over video, you can even turn your webcam off, so that you can see your therapist but not be seen. Research now demonstrates that therapy sessions conduced by telehealth are just as effective as face to face therapy. Read the research.

Who can benefit from virtual therapy?

Just about anyone can enjoy private, confidential and convenient access to high-quality therapy. The decision to seek therapy with a highly-experienced psychotherapist can help you have healthier relationships, gain new perspectives, reach your goals and remain resilient during stressful and challenging times. Therapy can help you feel less alone with your problems, as well as feel supported as you work to improve your circumstances. Life in New York City offers a unique set of challenges. A fast-paced lifestyle and hectic schedules lead to high levels of stress and little time for rejuvenation and restoration of the nervous system. If you are experiencing feelings of anxiety and depression, loneliness, loss or are struggling with substance use or unresolved trauma PTSD, you are not alone. Holistic Psychotherapy & Wellness Manhattan offers highly-effective, evidence-based counseling and therapy practices, as well as an integrative psychotherapy philosophy that incorporates a range of helpful, healing strategies, individualized to meet your unique needs. Because I am a licensed psychotherapist in New York, I can see you whether you live in the NYC metro area or anywhere in the state. You have many modern options to help you get the therapy you need, including BetterHelp, TalkSpace, and of course, all the licensed psychotherapists and psychologists on Psychology Today who continue to offer high-quality therapy in the US and worldwide.

Using you health insurance benefits to assist with the cost of therapy

Holistic Psychotherapy & Wellness Manhattan is In-Network with BCBS & Aetna, and Out-of-Network with most health insurances. I have also been reimbursed by Aetna, Cigna, BCBS, Emblem, Oxford, United and many more for out-of-network mental health services. Most of my clients are compensated for about 50-100% of my fees. Your insurance will refund a large portion of each session, as long as you have met your Out-of-Network deductible. If you have an Out-of-Network plan and have met your Out-of-Network deductible, your health plan will mail the partial refund in the form of a check to your home within a few weeks after each appointment.

How can an Integrative Psychotherapy & Wellness Practice enhance your life?

  • Gain support through a personal crisis, transition, loss, trauma or challenging situation that causes personal or relational distress

  • Heal codependency and feel empowered, autonomous, safe and secure in your life as self-esteem naturally increases

  • Find relief for sadness, depression and chronic depression with interpersonal psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and EMDR

  • Uncover unconscious conflicts and blocking beliefs that may be sabotaging your success and happiness

  • Address dissociation, body image, eating disorders, compulsions, addictions, substance use or abuse and obsessions

  • Learn to identify important thoughts, feelings, emotions, motivations and unconscious internal conflicts with insight-oriented therapy

  • Develop enhanced self-awareness as well as empathy and compassion for self and others with relational therapy

  • Break through blocks in intimacy, detach from unhealthy relationships and break patterns of repetition in significant relationships

  • Learn to identify triggers that lead to anger, confusion and relationship dysfunction in couple and relationship counseling

  • Develop effective, assertive communication skills to benefit personal and professional relationships

  • Learn more adaptive coping skills, self-care rituals, self-acceptance and mindfulness to create a healthy work-life balance

  • Uncover patterns of crippling perfectionism that interfere with achievement, success and personal happiness using EMDR

  • Process and heal painful feelings of loneliness, disappointment, sadness, loss, grief, guilt, shame, anger, envy and fear

  • Resolve trauma and abuse symptoms, develop healthier boundaries and heal early attachment wounds with EMDR Therapy

  • Recommendations for protocols using precursor amino acids, fatty acids, herbal medicine, supplements for mood, anxiety, ADHD, addictions, cravings, brain fog, PTSD

  • Diagnose & identify reproductive hormone-related (peri-menopause, menopause) anxiety, depression, insomnia, brain fog, low energy, pain, migraines, IBS, fibromyalgia

  • Learn self-care, meditation, breathing techniques, energy medicine & somatic therapy practices to regulate the nervous system

  • Obtain consultations for referrals to psychopharmacologists, psychiatrists, psychologists and other allied professionals

NYC Holistic Wellness Practice For Men & Women

Nutrition & Integrative Medicine

  • Protocols using precursor amino acids, fatty acids, herbal medicine, supplements for mood, anxiety, ADHD, addictions, cravings, brain fog, PTSD

  • Safely reduce or withdraw from pharmaceuticals

  • Enhance culinary nutrition to support energy, improve mood

  • Balance array of hormones

  • Address systemic inflammation

  • Self-care, meditation, breathing techniques, somatic therapy

  • Balance circadian, biological rhythms

Women’s Hormonal Mental Health

  • Diagnosis & identification of reproductive hormone-related anxiety, depression, brain fog, low energy, pain, migraines, IBS, fibromyalgia

  • Balance hormones naturally with herbs, adaptogens

  • Recommendations for hormone replacement, lifestyle modifications, nutrition support, supplementation, herbs & precursor amino acids

  • Support for hormone-related insomnia

  • Self-care techniques to optimize mental health

  • Somatic practices & energy medicine

  • Address relational wellness